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ElCount
06-19-2007, 09:08 PM
I asked a close contact of mine to sell me something, asked if he could get his hands on it, tell me the price, see if he wanted to make the sale.

Son agreed, got me the information, we agreed on the sale and he said he needed to go pick it up and then on afterwards it'd be the cash for item exchange.

So I saw dude one day and he said he was picking it up that very day, cool. Saw him couple days later and said he had it, I was like cool, lets go get it and I'll give you da dough.

That time, he was like nah, I'll call you later or somethin...

Now ever since then I've constantly called dude and a few times have seen him, and he's always on some "I'll come knock on ur door" or "i'll call you later" shit. Dude never calls, never knocks on my door or nothing. I'm always calling him 2 see what's up, and his moms answers alot and she even bullshits lies to me cuz she be sayin he's not there when I know he's there.

Anyways, dude's not coming through and doing all the bullshit he can do avoid me. As for this item, it's not too important (and no I'm nowhere near being locked up, killed, me or my family aint in danger blah blah blah so save the cautious tips) it's his trust issue that's bugging me.

Dude keeps avoiding me, not calling me back, etc...And whenever he does see me he acts like everything's cool. And he never brings up the issue thats stemming problems, he wants to avoid the issue always, never brings it up. And if I do bring it up, and open up for some explanation from him he hardly gives me one.

Not 2 mention since he's ducking me over this issue I hardly see him. Should I go knock on his door? I wanna respect his family and his moms, and don't wanna make it seem like I'm going to his crib to shoot his ass so I havent gone to his crib yet 2 speak 2 him. And how the hell should I talk 2 him bout this, cuz I don't respect the fact that he aint keepin it real.

Yes I'm sure he has his own problems and family issues, but that doesn't call for shunting the shit 2 do with me aside.

wedo-syang
06-19-2007, 10:26 PM
Knock him the fuck out!!!

Fuck his girl, his sister or whatever...he ows you

ElCount
06-20-2007, 03:28 PM
I'ma avoid fightin cuz it aint even worth it, and if you live in the hood, it's pretty inwise to have beef with people that live one building away.

I just want this kid to stop bullshitting and keep it real already.

wedo-syang
06-20-2007, 06:10 PM
Get the Info from somebody else....you ain't paid him yet, right?

ElCount
06-21-2007, 12:46 AM
Get the Info from somebody else....you ain't paid him yet, right?

HELL NO! Man I'd shoot myself if I were that stupid.

T-rade
06-22-2007, 02:56 PM
Shit, boiled up anger and mistrust is a bad thing! It's so much better to talk it out, I learned that the hard way. Well, my dad and grandma taught me that the hardway, they had a huge fight because they never talked their problems out when my dad was my age, so they can barely be in a room together anymore. So they got in an arguement and after that my dad asked me to leave with him, right there. He gave me a choice between leaving the dinner party with my mom or him. I didn't want to hurt either, so luckily my mom said I came over to my dad the next day just as normally scheduled. But that day taught me how messed up things can get between people, even people like mother and son, if the don't get their problems with each other straight and talked out.