Have any of you felt like your Ex's were toooo tied to you??

[Luse_Fiasco]

anybody??

like its soo hard for them to let go off of you??

im having that problem right now.....

i have someone new and things are great...but its like as if my ex doesnt want me to be happy with this new girl....i try to ignore it but she is constantly texting me and calling me and leaving me voicemails telling me im making a big mistake...n so n so...

like wtf??

is this common or wat

one thing tho...im never going to let her be in the way of my new relationship...no matter what..

any ideas...or help...cuz its slowly startin to bother me

[Wil Munny]

it isn't common

[ibadeen]

It happens...

Never to me though. Congrats on putting it down.

[Iyatola]

I think it's common.....I've been on both sides
You gotta be blunt, let her know it's over, if you wanted to be with her you would be.

[Miyagi]

I think it is common.

The best thing you can do is make a clean break....tell your Ex straight, don't pull any punches just tell her you want NOTHING to do with her.

And if she does text you then delete them without reading them or it really will bother you. Especially if you were with you for any length of time she will know how to push your buttons.

Three's a crowd and your new girl will NOT like your Ex being in the relationship, it can cause what is a cool relationship to become strained - trust me!

Good luck

[Vicious Grin]

just tell your alot happier without her...................................did she cheat on you dude?.......................

[Luse_Fiasco]

nah she aint cheat on me

she broke up with me like 2-3 months ago back in April for some stupid shit then she regretted it like a week later...n i slowly began to move on bcuz i told myself fuck being hurt n sad over her...im gonna go find someone whos gonna treat me good n so i did n now im happy, im happy with this girl im talkin to now

its ridiculous

[ElCount]

Buy that selfish bitch a self-help book and don't talk to her for four months...

On the real, don't talk to her at all. If anything, tell her something blunt and even harsh so she stays at great distance from you, cuz if ya current chick finds out you in contact with your ex she might flip and it will cause you a series of unavoidable unfortunate unnecessary bullshit. It'll just fuck up shit with ya current gurl.

Worst comes to worst, go to your local dealer and cop a few nicks, sneak up on ya ex's block in the middle of the night and plant the weed in her crib and make an anonymous call 2 the Po-Po. I mean, it's only the most gangsta and most hood shit you can do. Let alone drive away some emotional 2 year old who wont go away.

[Luse_Fiasco]

but...lately...like at first me n the new girl had great phone conversations n everything...n lately..its been kinda boring...i mean we talk...for hours but its not that excitin..n we find ourselves cuttin eachother off...at the end

we miss seeing eachother soo much...but is this normal?? i mean its long distance....it sucks cuz shes not here...n its really becoming hard for me to make tings better wen i feel like im not that great of a person that she once thought....

its a new relationship...so im gettin kinda worried..bcuz i started us off with us living away from eachother...i have no doubt that shes mine..n thats wat keeps me happy everyday..

im just worried that maybe im not that great of a dude afterall...she once liked


do u think there could still be that spark of greatness between me n her if we meet up again...

the beach is next week...n all im hoping for is making her the happiest woman alive...n me just being the usual laid back n relax kid that cracks..her up

[Luse_Fiasco]

or shud i just not talk to her as much....

like wats the best way to pull her towards...me n keep us alive..n hoping...even more

[ElCount]

Just be yaself and go do some research on how to prevent awkward silences during the wee hours you have with ya woman.

awkward silences = death.

[Luse_Fiasco]

theres never awkward silences....we always have something to talk about....either about our pasts..or wats gonna happen in the future...that sorta thing ya kno??

i just dont think being in a long distance relationship is a good idea for anybody...especially if u have seen that person b4....things bcome really hard....but i only have one chance...n one shot...to show her that im the man she needs to be with...

[Hollywoodfresh]

damn thats crazy beacuse the same thing is happinin 2 me now .. as one of my good friends told me dont stress it and do what you do keep it movin if you got sumthin good stick with it ya digg???

[T-rade]

On the real, don't talk to her at all. If anything, tell her something blunt and even harsh so she stays at great distance from you

Worst thing to do! She will just have an even better reason to get in contact with you, trying to figure out why you acted like that!

[AL-JABR]

NO BUT THAN AGAIN I DON'T GIVE A FUCK.

[Ayo]

you should set up a date with her, then choke her out