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T-rade
08-07-2007, 05:34 PM
Alright, you all know what girl this is about so I won't tell the story behind us, and if you want it, it is easy to find.

But she is going of to boarding school this year (yes, very popular in Denmark) and I asked how long after the start I could sent her a letter, she said a few weeks and I asked if she would get mad if she got one the first day and she didn't really know.

Should I sent one for her to have the first day or should I wait?

ElCount
08-07-2007, 08:59 PM
Most chicks get turned off if you display any overwhelming emotional attachment cause they have you in their vicegrip, when they like being in your vicegrip, they just don't like being chokeheld.

I thought it was kinda odd on your part to ask her when should you send it, you should just do it when the fuck you want. You showed your lack of independence and free will just by asking her. Most chicks like a dude with those traits plus ambition so I would stop worrying bout her so much and worry more bout ur schoolwork and future.

You sound like ur trying to save a relationship that's not going well, the communication seems to suck and that's really key for anything to work out. Don't try to fix this shit overindulgingly, it will only create bad chemistry between you two.

Her telling you to wait a few weeks seems like she doesn't feel secure bout the relationship or she needs her space.

My advice is to keep your distance and let things mellow out, if you guys fall apart it really wasn't meant to be and if it works out cool. I know it's some cliche and overused saying, but if you really love the chick you'll know what to do to hold her.

Bossanova
08-07-2007, 09:22 PM
Wait a few days. Let her get settled in first.

T-rade
08-08-2007, 07:11 AM
Most chicks get turned off if you display any overwhelming emotional attachment cause they have you in their vicegrip, when they like being in your vicegrip, they just don't like being chokeheld.

I thought it was kinda odd on your part to ask her when should you send it, you should just do it when the fuck you want. You showed your lack of independence and free will just by asking her. Most chicks like a dude with those traits plus ambition so I would stop worrying bout her so much and worry more bout ur schoolwork and future.

You sound like ur trying to save a relationship that's not going well, the communication seems to suck and that's really key for anything to work out. Don't try to fix this shit overindulgingly, it will only create bad chemistry between you two.

Her telling you to wait a few weeks seems like she doesn't feel secure bout the relationship or she needs her space.

My advice is to keep your distance and let things mellow out, if you guys fall apart it really wasn't meant to be and if it works out cool. I know it's some cliche and overused saying, but if you really love the chick you'll know what to do to hold her.


We're not together, just friends, but I still like her, and the letter would just be a "how are thigns" kinda letter

Bre
08-09-2007, 12:09 PM
A letter? What is this 1950? But enough of that.

That girl ain't worth your fucking time, move the fuck on.

T-rade
08-09-2007, 03:53 PM
A letter? What is this 1950? But enough of that.

That girl ain't worth your fucking time, move the fuck on.

I tried, but it didn't work

Bre
08-09-2007, 04:04 PM
Not with that attitude....

Imma call it how I see it, your a sucker for love.

T-rade
08-09-2007, 04:25 PM
Not with that attitude....

Imma call it how I see it, your a sucker for love.

That's true, I am a sucker for love... But I tried to talk to other girls, flirting, trying to get them to like me and me to like them and just try not to think of her

Bre
08-09-2007, 04:33 PM
Ahhh let me get my Dr. Phil on.

You need to buy yourself a bottle of vodka, allow yourself to cry like a bitch over her for one night while drinking so much that you can´t fucking walk. That way you get a chance to reflect on shit and think about what you could do better and/or about her bitchness.

Or you could go with the macho way and go out with your friends and drink way too much alcohol.

Or you could try both, but whatever you do... Do try, cause without trying you would never do anything.

Oh and Italians are from Italy, keep that in mind too.

T-rade
08-09-2007, 04:56 PM
Ahhh let me get my Dr. Phil on.

You need to buy yourself a bottle of vodka, allow yourself to cry like a bitch over her for one night while drinking so much that you canīt fucking walk. That way you get a chance to reflect on shit and think about what you could do better and/or about her bitchness.

Or you could go with the macho way and go out with your friends and drink way too much alcohol.

Or you could try both, but whatever you do... Do try, cause without trying you would never do anything.

Oh and Italians are from Italy, keep that in mind too.

I'll need money first

Bre
08-10-2007, 10:37 AM
You ain't got 13 euro?

No wonder the girl ignores you, who the fuck wanna date a broke mofo? lol no beef

T-rade
08-10-2007, 10:42 AM
You ain't got 13 euro?

No wonder the girl ignores you, who the fuck wanna date a broke mofo? lol no beef

She's broker than I am. Also I just been on vacation, spend around 100 euro on beer (60cent for 0,5liter) within two weeks. But you don't make any money while being on boarding school

Bre
08-10-2007, 03:10 PM
LOL its not about the girls money, girls don't pay for shit they expect you to do that.

Its about if you got dough, feel me?

And that means she's materialistic so she doesn't love you she loves money.

So yeah move on man, too bad.

T-rade
08-10-2007, 06:11 PM
LOL its not about the girls money, girls don't pay for shit they expect you to do that.

Its about if you got dough, feel me?

And that means she's materialistic so she doesn't love you she loves money.

So yeah move on man, too bad.

She's not materialistic dude, don't know what made you think that

Bre
08-11-2007, 10:47 AM
I wasn't saying she's materialistic, women want you to pay for shit.. Not all the time, but sometimes hell fucking yeah.

So you can tell yourself it don't work like that, but wrong it does.

Cesar Chavez
08-11-2007, 11:10 AM
but as soon as your dough go your ho go
now you solo



lol.

Nah, wait for awhile. Don't go overboard with that shit. If a girl misses you, she send you something angry saying "why aren't you talking to me" or some shit.

But I bet she had some confused look in her eyes when you asked her when you can send her a letter. Don't ask that kinda shit man. Girls love a man with initiative.

T-rade
08-11-2007, 11:28 AM
And that means she's materialistic so she doesn't love you she loves money.


You did say she was materialistic

Bre
08-11-2007, 06:09 PM
You did say she was materialistic

Well then I guess she is.

And word to Cesar, never tell your plans, they like suprises.

T-rade
08-11-2007, 06:20 PM
Well then I guess she is.

And word to Cesar, never tell your plans, they like suprises.

Now she asked me to sent it to her so she has it tuesday

Cesar Chavez
08-12-2007, 10:38 AM
Now she asked me to sent it to her so she has it tuesday

T-Rade no bullshit or hate and all, but it looks like she got more balls than you. She asks to send it, so you do so. So next time she asks you for 10 bucks and you gonna give it? Before you know it she ask for a threesome with another male and you tell her "let me search for one"? Sound like you her puppy and she got you on a lease and she pulls you down the water when she find a real dog.

ElCount
08-12-2007, 01:11 PM
^^^ More or less the inevitable truth.

I hear you though cuz I know your quite modest and it's tough to play off the asshole tip but sometimes you gotta put your damn foot down hard.

T-rade
08-12-2007, 02:07 PM
Yeah, I see...

But ya forgot something, I'm not with her... But I get your point, both of you. And I actually did the "foot-placement" thing that day, as you might know, she had some serious moodswings against me, and I told her that I didn't accept that treatment and I let her know how it made me feel... I think that was a good move, should've done it earlier though

Bre
08-12-2007, 05:23 PM
Yeah, I see...

But ya forgot something, I'm not with her...

See that's my point, and your already her puppet, her servant.

Next time you see some girl you like, check your pants if your have grown some balls...

This ''girl'' its just craving for attention, and that's why she needs you... I know the type.

Just take some time to think about it before you act, just don't act sit back and watch.. You'll be suprised by her and yourself.

No beef.

T-rade
08-13-2007, 03:53 AM
I see what you mean