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08-14-2007, 02:16 AM
For those in management, could you please provide me with some tips on how to deal with people without snappin?
Don't get me wrong ... I like my new job because it's different from my old job and I need the experience, but the growing pangs are hard. I am eager to get to the next phase of it. I working my way to a corner office and a team of 4 - 10 ppl or self employment, whichever is most lucrative first. Perhaps both? lol Anyway ....
I know with every job, there are always some things you have to deal or ignore. But people, people are a trip! Sometimes I just want to tell ppl "WTF is wrong with you?" or "Did you actually think before doing what you did or saying what you said?" People are always second guessing your judgment or your position or ability to do the job. And what makes it so bad, these are not even my peers, most of my colleagues have more experience than I. They are my mentors right now. I have people coming up to me saying "I was an assistant manager at a retail store and yada yada..." aka "I should have your job." or "I can do your job." And these are the very same ppl who you have to track down because they are not where they are suppose to be .... doing their damn job. These are the very same ppl who need an attitude adjustment in order to deal with the BS ppl like themselves put out. Ppl who get a step up in position renegading like they run the WHOLE company. That's right, like they cut the checks. They know the whole works of the business all in 2 months of service. I have to filter my thoughts too much and the filtering is more work than the work itself. Someone is going to catch me on a ripe day and I just may lose my job. Patience is a virtue that I am constantly working on.
I need to know how to deal with other people's ca ca otherwise, I'm going to start Trumping ppl left and right. "WTF? Did you just .... YOU'RE FIRED!" lol I have a big heart so it makes it extra hard. Why can't ppl just go to work, do their damn job and go home? I could give two turds if you like your job or if so and so don't know what they are doing, etc as long I can depend on you to do your job and do it well ... enough. I really hate babysitting ADULTS. My job title should be, Day/NightCare provider for 18+ year olds because that's exactly what I do. For years I avoided management for that every reason.
Don't get me wrong ... I like my new job because it's different from my old job and I need the experience, but the growing pangs are hard. I am eager to get to the next phase of it. I working my way to a corner office and a team of 4 - 10 ppl or self employment, whichever is most lucrative first. Perhaps both? lol Anyway ....
I know with every job, there are always some things you have to deal or ignore. But people, people are a trip! Sometimes I just want to tell ppl "WTF is wrong with you?" or "Did you actually think before doing what you did or saying what you said?" People are always second guessing your judgment or your position or ability to do the job. And what makes it so bad, these are not even my peers, most of my colleagues have more experience than I. They are my mentors right now. I have people coming up to me saying "I was an assistant manager at a retail store and yada yada..." aka "I should have your job." or "I can do your job." And these are the very same ppl who you have to track down because they are not where they are suppose to be .... doing their damn job. These are the very same ppl who need an attitude adjustment in order to deal with the BS ppl like themselves put out. Ppl who get a step up in position renegading like they run the WHOLE company. That's right, like they cut the checks. They know the whole works of the business all in 2 months of service. I have to filter my thoughts too much and the filtering is more work than the work itself. Someone is going to catch me on a ripe day and I just may lose my job. Patience is a virtue that I am constantly working on.
I need to know how to deal with other people's ca ca otherwise, I'm going to start Trumping ppl left and right. "WTF? Did you just .... YOU'RE FIRED!" lol I have a big heart so it makes it extra hard. Why can't ppl just go to work, do their damn job and go home? I could give two turds if you like your job or if so and so don't know what they are doing, etc as long I can depend on you to do your job and do it well ... enough. I really hate babysitting ADULTS. My job title should be, Day/NightCare provider for 18+ year olds because that's exactly what I do. For years I avoided management for that every reason.