SOME SERIOUS SHIT!!! HELP NEEDED ASAP

[T-rade]

So, I visited my best friend tuesday to thursday. He met me at the trainstation with his ex girlfriend. We just chilled the first day, but the second day we got drunk and me and his ex started kissing, he godt pissed, understanably but then me, him, her and another og his friends talked in groups, two at the time. And everything got cooled down, he said he didn't want to see us kiss tho he said, not long after he changed his mind and actually wanted to see us kiss!

It didn't take long before he actually told us to go down and have sex with each other, which we were perfectly fine with and so we did. Afterwards he told us with a grin that we had made a lot of noise while being in there.

The next day, thursday morning, he asked several times if we were a couple now, we said no every time tho.

I haven't been able to talk to him since, but him and his ex aren't even friends no more -or so she said he has told her!

Also it's worth mentioning that I asked him several times for his approval to be with her, because no matter how long it's been since you've broken up there is still a bond between former couples. And I wanted his acceptance as his best friend, to cross that bond!

So, he is the jerk here? Me, her or him? Or all of us? none of us?

[Confidential]

"My nigga James got married same girl he went to school with
Nice girl, nerd with glasses he was too stuck
Studied for her Masters part time nurse
I'll tell you how superb the ass is but who's looking?
I mean that's my man maybe I just took a peek
Maybe I wondered what it would be like, sike
Cus James and me like I was with AZ like
Luke and Hans solo, fucking with niggas girls forbidden that's a no no"

Listen to Nas, never fuck with your boy's girl (ex or not)

[gander448]

^^I agree, you just don't do it. especially if you guys are so close, there is always a bond and even the smallest shit hurts, just don't do it. But his behavior was still hella weird, telling ya'll to do it, thats some stupid shit

[ElCount]

Yeah man if that's ya best friend you need to fall back. Just chill. Take things slow at least, shit...

He definately has feelings for her somewhere and they aint leave him yet, he's just been trying to be the bigger man and not allow those feelings to resurface, and I think him encouraging you to kiss her and fuck her coulda been him trying to experience something that would make him get over her.

So, he is the jerk here? Me, her or him? Or all of us? none of us?
The world is fulla jerks, I'ma jerk, your a jerk, and gander is a fucking jerk for not updating his thread about his chick situation after I took my precious angelic time to write him a nice fat response!!! Goddamnit!!!

lol anyways, I will say one thing. Your a fuckin ho T-Rade lol. Well not entirely but your definately a crossover between a pimp and a ho. And I won't go as far as to call this chick a slut cuz I don't know her so I'll just call her a ho instead also.

[LIFTED]

i wouldnt mack on one of my boys ex's, let alone fuck her, even if i had the okay to do so. a friendship should be worth more than just a piece of ass, then again i wasnt in the heat of the moment and we all know pussy makes us men do some stupid shit.

[Bre]

i wouldnt mack on one of my boys ex's, let alone fuck her, even if i had the okay to do so. a friendship should be worth more than just a piece of ass, then again i wasnt in the heat of the moment and we all know pussy makes us men do some stupid shit.

I co-sign with the good old doctor..

Plus my dick or tongue doesn't wanna go to a place where my friends have been.

[T-rade]

Yeah man if that's ya best friend you need to fall back. Just chill. Take things slow at least, shit...

He definately has feelings for her somewhere and they aint leave him yet, he's just been trying to be the bigger man and not allow those feelings to resurface, and I think him encouraging you to kiss her and fuck her coulda been him trying to experience something that would make him get over her.

So, he is the jerk here? Me, her or him? Or all of us? none of us?
The world is fulla jerks, I'ma jerk, your a jerk, and gander is a fucking jerk for not updating his thread about his chick situation after I took my precious angelic time to write him a nice fat response!!! Goddamnit!!!

lol anyways, I will say one thing. Your a fuckin ho T-Rade lol. Well not entirely but your definately a crossover between a pimp and a ho. And I won't go as far as to call this chick a slut cuz I don't know her so I'll just call her a ho instead also.

I can see how I'm a ho, but how am I a pimp?

But the way I see it, ya agree that I was the bigger jerk on this matter and that I wronged him, and he wronged himself by allowing us to have sex?

But like lifted said, the chance of sex makes us do some weird ass shit that we normally wouldn't do. And besides that alcohol played a factor - and he know how long it had been since me and her last had sex.

But even with me doing some, obviously according to ya, foul shit. Didn't he treat usfair by saying okay to it, considering we asked several times and I told him that I would also put him over any girl?

[ElCount]

I said you were a pimp just cuz you always be talkin bout different gurls and you got some fine ones in pics with you on myspace lol. But your still a ho.

It's just my opinion, but he didn't necessarily do wrong, he mighta just been trying to be modest, and suck it up, so you and the gurl could have a good time without any pressure.

I mean you and the chick yourselves put pressure on him in the first place by asking if it was okay to fuck. I think as a best friend you shouldn't have even asked cuz you would know it's a wrong thing to do.

The alcohol is a lame excuse for me, always has been, cuz people should know their limits and know what they are like when they are drunk, and know what kinda things they do when drunk. Although I do cosign LIFTED, the power of the pussy is unfuckwitable, makes you do certain shit.

[T-rade]

I said you were a pimp just cuz you always be talkin bout different gurls and you got some fine ones in pics with you on myspace lol. But your still a ho.

It's just my opinion, but he didn't necessarily do wrong, he mighta just been trying to be modest, and suck it up, so you and the gurl could have a good time without any pressure.

I mean you and the chick yourselves put pressure on him in the first place by asking if it was okay to fuck. I think as a best friend you shouldn't have even asked cuz you would know it's a wrong thing to do.

The alcohol is a lame excuse for me, always has been, cuz people should know their limits and know what they are like when they are drunk, and know what kinda things they do when drunk. Although I do cosign LIFTED, the power of the pussy is unfuckwitable, makes you do certain shit.

Lol, I've talked about two girls within a range of 9 months..

And those in my myspace pic is some from my class, just fooled with me when i were "near-sleeping"...

And it's not like I'm trying to blame it on alcohol - alone. because it does make some "stupid" things "smarter".

And I don't know the rules, or "code" of fucking/flirting/etc. This has been the second girl I ever really did anything at all with, for real at least. So I am really ignorant and wet behind the ears on this matter...



Luckily me and my friend talked it through

[Kingasiatic]

I co-sign with the good old doctor..

Plus my dick or tongue doesn't wanna go to a place where my friends have been.
You so rite,I cannot beat behind my man!!!!

[LIFTED]

And I don't know the rules, or "code" of fucking/flirting/etc. This has been the second girl I ever really did anything at all with, for real at least. So I am really ignorant and wet behind the ears on this matter...



Luckily me and my friend talked it through
its not really a "code" its more of an unspoken thing, almost like you should already know it without being told.

basically, i just put things like this: how would i feel if i was on the other end of the stick (no homo)

[T-rade]

its not really a "code" its more of an unspoken thing, almost like you should already know it without being told.

basically, i just put things like this: how would i feel if i was on the other end of the stick (no homo)

Yeah, I came to that the night after I wrote that reply - I would feel awful! Luckily we talked it through me and him and are starting to talk again

[LIFTED]

good luck with restoring that friendship dude, seriously.

[Bre]

This shit is kinda gay, seriously.

I can't be the only one who feels this thread is kinda akward. Especially this shit: ''Yeah, I came to that the night after I wrote that reply - I would feel awful! Luckily we talked it through me and him and are starting to talk again''...

Shit sounds completly wrong.

Is he seriously just a friend T? Or did your practice kissing with tongue with him?

Like good old Splurge would say..... Shaaaaaaawwwwwwwww

[Cesar Chavez]

thars a no-no T-rade. If you ever ask your boys that question they will always say "its cool". Thats just how it is. Ain't noone gonna bitch bout an ex and say you can't do it. Just respect your boy and leave ol' girls pussy alone.

nuff pussies to fuck

[Ceasar]

Me and my boys
smashed the same chick
wasnt his girl just a jumpoff

[AL-JABR]

I WOULDN'T FUCK WITH HER. AND IF SHE HAS A PROBLEM I WOULD PRACTICE THE ART OF NOT GIVING A FUCK.

[ElCount]

Damn this thread poppin back up.

I was in a situation similar a few months back, I was at a house party and my boy's ex came through. They had been broken up for like 11 months at the time and after her he got his dick wet with maybe 2 more chicks and prolly had some other random hook-ups around the way.

Anyway one too many shots came through and I did all but fuck her. The horrible thing is I had an insane amount of alcohol in my body which I guess impairs the bloodflow to your dick somehow. Anyways I couldn't get my shit up like half the time which was a bit embarrassing and frustrating but I didn't give a fuck.

I did have my boy on my mind at the time but in recent months he been on some I'm tryna focus on things other than women mentality so I was sure he wouldn't give a fuck. Morning after next he called me up congratulating me and shit which was kinda odd lol.

[Wil Munny]

Damn T, that seems like a pretty gay scene. Everybody is different but I don't fuck chicks my friends hit. That's me. And I sure ain't going to be push into sticking my dick in a chick and get the 3rd degree about it from. Dude. I probably would ask him why the fuck he is so worried about my dick. LOL, I would probably go back months later and ask him what the fuck was up that night. LOL, that's me though.


El, not that it ever happened to me, but I wouldn't care. Shit happens. Just don't make it a habit.

I hope my advice it cool seeing how I lost my license during a craps game with some hookers in London.

[ElCount]

Yeah mos def ain't happening again and like I said I thought about it for a lil while before I followed through with it and rationally decided he wouldnt give a fuck, and I made an honest unbiased assessment cuz he really didnt give a fuck.

Also he cheated on her with like 2 chicks while they dated, made out with one and got a blowjob from another so hey...And he was over her like nothin...

The thing I had a problem with most was my dick. Not to get on my dat nucca steez and be talking about other people's penises or having other dudes talk about mine but has that shit ever happened to anyone? I hear so many stories of "i got so drunk smashed some chick..." and "blah blah blah had a one night stand", the thing is all of these require quite a bit of alcohol...

Now I had quite a bit like 6 beers, 4 well sized cups of margaritas, like 4 shots of tequila, 3 shots of vodka, a shot of rum, and alot of random sips from playing King's Cup. I don't know if that justifies my flacid fallus but it bugged me the next day...Anybody ever have that problem?

[Ayo]

there's no timeframe.. just don't do it. it's your boys ex for gods sake.

[ur_next_ex]

LEAVE THE GIRL ALONE IF YOU WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR BUDDY. HERS IS NOT THE ONLY PUSSY OUT THERE. LIFE IS ABOUT PRIORITES. THINK WITH YOUR BIG HEAD, NOT WITH THE SMALL ONE. DON'T LET THE PROSPECT OF EASY PUSSY BCOME MORE TROUBLE AND DRAMA THAN IT'S WORTH.