Interracial Dating, anyone here for or against it?

[BRANDONTHOMAS]

Well, for those who don't know me too well or at all, i'm a white cat. I realized at a young age that i seemed to be more interested in other races of women. I honestly couldn't tell you why but i find myself drawn to girls outside of my race. I've dated african american, filipino, latino girls, and an Indian chick. For some reason i don't have a prefence for white women. I have recieved comments/jokes from some of my friends and members of my family for dating outside of my race, but it has never discouraged me from doing it. There have been countless times where i go somwhere with my girlfriend and recieve glares/looks whenever i walk by people with my girl (who is from el-salvador). It bothers her sometimes, but i shrug it off, and tell her that you can't let others opinions keep you from being happy.

The truth is that i have always wanted to have a bi-racial family. I find bi-racial families a beautiful thing. I contridict myself when i say this (due to the fact that i don't, but can't say i won't date a white girl), but when i'm dating a girl of another race, i don't see color, i see a person, and i look for the whats on the inside.

I basically made this thread to share opinions on bi-racial dating, to see if some are for it, some are against it, and some of your thoughts about it.

I know that these days it's a little more tolerated than it has been in the past, but to some it's a taboo.

Basically just want to see what some of ya'll have to say or feel about it. I never really sat down and discussed it with anyone in an in depth convo.

Thoughts? Opinons? Feelings? Criticism? Feel free to share...



BLAH UNO...

[LIFTED]

I just KNEW you were a white dude, no offense man. Something about you just told me you were. Lol.

when i'm dating a girl of another race, i don't see color, i see a person, and i look for the whats on the inside.

Well said, I agree 110% with this statement. I've been in a lot of bi-racial relationships (unlike ElCount, who is bisexual. I kid ElCount, just seeing if you pay attention to my posts still lol) It's not that I have nothing against my own race (I'm Mexican) it's just that, thats the way the cookie crumbles I guess. I act like myself, do my thing and we just so happen to attract each other.

Keep doing your thing BrandonThomas, don't let other people get to you and be there for your lady when she's annoyed by other peoples reactions to when they see you. I wish you two nothing but the best!

[Patricia]

I honestly don't care if you like dogs.

I don't see why anyone else would care.

People have preferences of fat/skinny, tall/short, blond/brown hair, etc..

Why can't you have a preference of race? Even if it pretty much just excludes white women.

People are way too sensitive and they take that as something like "I hate white women. They're ugly." And some dumb shit. Hell, even if you do think white women are ugly, they shouldn't give a shit either.

Do what you do.

[T-rade]

^
Yes Ma'am!

[Bossanova]

I'm the product of an interracial relationship and I agree that it is a beautiful thing. I think people should keep an open mind when dating, instead of looking for a person of a particular race. You never know who you could have chemistry with.

[Dr. ibarfly Jones]

If you can practice your faith with different ethnic groups, you can work with or for a person of a different ethnic group, you can be saved by a doctor of a different ethnic group then why wouldn't you be able to love a person of a different ethnic group?

[LIFTED]

Ibarfly sounds like hes rhyming using the new "lets end every bar with the same shit" trend thats been going on lately.

[Dr. ibarfly Jones]

lol

[wedo-syang]

I have nothing against biracial relationships...i myself am a 2 blooded muthafucker....

BUt ther's one thing i really hate.... Whenever iI see one of those Old ugly ass white punks with a young asian girl it makes my heart pump..... I fucking wanna strangulate his white ass and beat the dumb smile outta his face.........jump on his face and shit, take a hammer and hit his face till his brain runs out of his nose .............MAN I FUCKING HATE THAT!!

[Luse_Fiasco]

its a beautiful thing

[Obatala]

I am in an "interracial" marriage so I am obviously for it.

[BRANDONTHOMAS]

I have nothing against biracial relationships...i myself am a 2 blooded muthafucker....

BUt ther's one thing i really hate.... Whenever iI see one of those Old ugly ass white punks with a young asian girl it makes my heart pump..... I fucking wanna strangulate his white ass and beat the dumb smile outta his face.........jump on his face and shit, take a hammer and hit his face till his brain runs out of his nose .............MAN I FUCKING HATE THAT!!



^^^^ Damn son, thats some strong feelings. Can i ask why you feel that way? I never really understood why some people get mad when someone of their own race is dating another particular race ( ex: i work with this one guy who gets so pissed off when he see's white women with black men), is it you believe that asian girls should stick with their own, or is it some (no disrespect when i say this) hidden jealousy? going back to the guy i work with i asked him about it, and he couldn't give me a decent answer why, the confusing thing about it is he could care less if it were the other way around (a white man with a black woman). He couldn't explain any reason for that either, i think dude got screwed over or something, either way i think it's retarded. Other than that everyone that has responeded so far has been for it, but is there anyone who will talk openly about being against it?

LOL at LIFTED for swearing i was white, i don't think that i have came across being anything else (to my knowledge).

I appreciate the feedback and support, i 've put up a lot with criticism over the years (especially in highschool), and i have never went against what i wanted that made me happy, and believe me i have been thru some fucked up shit (threats, confrontations, harrasment). It just goes to show that racism, is still a huge problem these days. Rasism is such an ugly thing that i have never understood myself.


BLAH UNO...

[4anybody...]

my family has been "interracially" mixing for many generations

parents, grandparents, greatgrandparents, greatgreatgrandparents---ALL of them married interracially (kinda, since they were all mixed, it's a little unclear if it was "interracial"). and im sure it goes back further cuz being latino means u prolly got a mix of white (spanish) and indian blood thats been mixed since the 1600s.

plus most of my cousins been marrying interracially.

fact is, before there were "races" we had other boundaries between groups of people that people were scared to break for relationships. different ethic groups, different tribes, whatever. history is full of people breaking down those boundaries.

but the reality is a lot of people don't see it like that and truth is cultural differences can get in between u 2. especially if her family doesn't like white dudes in general

and heres sumthing i think is important to think about:

U gotta face the fact that the reason why a lot of women date white dudes is cuz they see him, first and foremost, as a way out of poverty. They may "like" eachother and have similar interests, but don't underestimate how much time a girl has been cultivating that personality. Especially if she was real poor, she could have been planning on looking for a white dude since she was a kid. The problem with that is u gotta see how she might look down on her own race (tho she might not overtly say it). And if she looks down on her own race, and u 2 end up having kids, do u want that kind of person to raise your kids?

[4anybody...]

but what i personally think is most important is that you to have similar or complimentary goals, lifestyles, and views of people. its also good 2 have similar levels of education. as long as u got those things, ur straight.

[Nina_Wessun]

aint nothin wrong with it..my fam is full of biracial offspring..love is blind

[BRANDONTHOMAS]

love is blind


Couldn't have said it better mami...

Blah Uno...

[SiC]

Nothing wrong with interracial relationships at all.






Live & let live is my motto.

[HonorAmongstThieves]

I have nothing against biracial relationships...i myself am a 2 blooded muthafucker....

BUt ther's one thing i really hate.... Whenever iI see one of those Old ugly ass white punks with a young asian girl it makes my heart pump..... I fucking wanna strangulate his white ass and beat the dumb smile outta his face.........jump on his face and shit, take a hammer and hit his face till his brain runs out of his nose .............MAN I FUCKING HATE THAT!!

your pictures suck hard man

[wedo-syang]

^^^^ Damn son, thats some strong feelings. Can i ask why you feel that way?

Ah don't get me wrong on this man........I have nothing against a young cool dude dating an asian girl or even coming down here and falling in love...dats allright with me.....

I just have something against OLD UGLY WHITE MEN coming here just to get a asian girl.....YOu know like they telling their friends back home " I'm gonna buy me a poor asian girl, he he" You feel me..? And then he prolly calls asian chinks and rice eater and pulls his eyes apart to immitate us...but then goes and wants to have asian pussy?? I HATE THAT..!!

And I seen that shit so many times, like a 55 year old white guy with a 18 year old asian girl...or even younger you know? I HATE THAT.....!!

BUt if they both are about the same age, he respects her as a human being and not just as a young good looking fucking object it's all good.....

MIght sound racist at some part, but hey I can't help it.........just speaking my mind

[Wil Munny]

Yeah Wedo that's crazy. What's wrong with that? If I was 55 and alone (granted I'm fine, not ugly) and wanted a relationship with a Russian girl raised in Isreal. What would be wrong with me going to Tel Aviv looking for that. Not that I'm planning to do that, but come on.

[~y~]

Most ppl get uptight about interracial couples. Someone's discontent about our relationship is not our problem.

[Albemarle]

I see nothing wrong with it. I think children have a way of tearing down walls of ignorance. I've seen a lot of interracial couples that was getting hate from one set of family members or so but once the kids came it changed everything. Matter of fact/come to think of it My brother is dating a white girl, got a kid with her, and I got a major problem with it. It has nothing to do with her race it's more of the fact that he's married and he's cheating on his wife with her. I wish he would either give his wife a divorce or get his stuff together. But when it comes to race I could careless who a person dates just be with someone who has good Morals

[birdman87]

I think its overrated racial endogamy>>>>>>>>inter racial relationships.

[ChynaWhyte™]

IT'S WONDERFUL...


PEACE

[Mr Dax]

nothing wrong with Interracial Dating....end of the day were all human beings....any one who does have a problem with it has to b racist

[LosingMyReligion]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDVLMdYxVPs

[SCIENTIZT]

The only girls outside of my race that I can realistically see me dealing with is a puerto rican girl, because I admire their culture and have known many of them for the majority of my life..Me and my people were talking to a friend of mine who dates white girls and I said how I wouldn't even know how to holla at one, what would we talk about?..How would I approach her "Whats up Sexy white jawn!!!" Is she gonna be offended that I openly called her white?..I can't apologize because whatever draws me to the chick is usually what I cite in my initial approach (Hey brown skin..How you doing, Red?"..etc).. Anyway, I expressed these thoughts to my homie and he agreed that there isn't much to talk about with them...due to such drastic differences in the culture, are we supposed to tiptoe around certain stufff? That would be wack..Not to mention most of the white people I'm cool with are cool WHITE people..not white people why try to be black..they are happy in they're own lives and can appreciate me being happy in mine. and we meet in the middle...and I wouldn't want it any other way...however these type of white people don't usually consider dating outside of their race..

[Kingasiatic]

To each itz own.Love is blind.