Advice for first dates?

[T-rade]

Whattup nas forum friends

For once, something positive :)

Can anyone drop some gems on me for what to do on a first date?

So far we agreed to watch hairspray, nothing after/before, and I know jack about dating.

So advice?

[Luse_Fiasco]

just be cool and be yourself nah mean? girls love that, crack a joke here n there not too many or they will think ur a joke

after the movie, hmm idk dawg, u might want to go back home n keep her guessing but until then just let it be

i peeped hairspray over the summer with some chick, i aint wanna go to it but i didnt opt out. the movie was aight. just be cool n open throughout the movie, girl will like that.

[(--LazerScope-->>]

Well, first rule, is to keep the date at about the $20.00 range. You don't wanna go out all breaking bank for a chick you hardly know. That's tricking.

I would have suggested something like a drink in a lounge, that way you two could get some convo in, but a movie's cool. Maybe after the movie you 2 could go get some ice cream and then a nice walk.

[T-rade]

Well, first rule, is to keep the date at about the $20.00 range. You don't wanna go out all breaking bank for a chick you hardly know. That's tricking.

I would have suggested something like a drink in a lounge, that way you two could get some convo in, but a movie's cool. Maybe after the movie you 2 could go get some ice cream and then a nice walk.

I got some tickets for a movie, popcorn and a soda as a christmas gift from my work, that's why I asked her out, so I'm not going to pay for anything of that,, chance are tho that we might get something to eat which I'll end up paying for, so that's fine with me

[wedo-syang]

share the popcorn....put a hole in it and stuff your dick through nah meann?

Nah seriously be easy, don't get nervous and let her know you aint had a date in years...

Be yourself, after the movie go get a drink with her, bring her home or to the bus or wherever it's possible. if she's wifey material you won't be able to hit it on the first date anyway.

If you're out for a quick fuck get her drunk ya dig?

[T-rade]

share the popcorn....put a hole in it and stuff your dick through nah meann?

Nah seriously be easy, don't get nervous and let her know you aint had a date in years...

Be yourself, after the movie go get a drink with her, bring her home or to the bus or wherever it's possible. if she's wifey material you won't be able to hit it on the first date anyway.

If you're out for a quick fuck get her drunk ya dig?

Dude, I'm 17, she's 16...

[wedo-syang]

ehmm......So what???

last time i check it was never too early to get a girl drunk and fuck, or look for wifey material.

What exactly is the point of your post??

[T-rade]

ehmm......So what???

last time i check it was never too early to get a girl drunk and fuck, or look for wifey material.

What exactly is the point of your post??

That it's not very normal to do in our age... My point was that probably more common in your age

[Don Julio]

wear a rubber

[Bre]

Just chill out, be yourself and don't stress anything. If it not clicks, then just let it be. It is what it is.

[mrmag]

Yo...i see a lot of cats on here crackin jokes n shit, but imma be straight up about this one.... before u go out on your date... TOSS YOUR MEAT!!! I cant stress how much that shit helps... just like that movie with Ben Stiller in it... that shit reduces all kinds of nerves n shit... lets u be yourself.. not some bumblin stumblin nerd with nothin interestin to say. straight up. Toss that shit!!!

[TONY Gigolo]

What kind of advice are you looking for? What are ur intentions with this chick?

1. Are you trying to have sexual relations with this chick on the first date?
2. Are you trying to have sexual relations with this chick after a few dates?
3. Are you trying to have a long term relationship with this chick where sexual relations isn't important?
4. Are you just looking to be friends with this chick with hopes that she will have sexual relations with you eventually?
5. Is this chick just someone you want to kick it with but don't want to have sexual relations with?

[T-rade]

@ Tony: that'll be number three (I think right now)

And @ Mr.Mag does that seriously help? And what if I have to meet her right after school, no time to get home?!

[mrmag]

Yeah, dude...since it's number 3? Then hell yeah that helps. .....go to the Pizzaria or Arcade or wherever u wanna take her...excuse yourself and go hit a stall in the bathroom... rub that shit out, then come back out a new man! You on one of those 4 hour dates n shit? Rub it out again!!

For realz.... i've settle down now, but back when i was datin in shit, and if i was ever fuckin with a real nice shorty i was feelin and saw myself chillin with for a while? I'd do that shit before every date......

If u think your a cool dude, then do that shit and you'll be yourself... trust me....

[Shadowapocalypse]

just be cool and be yourself nah mean? girls love that, crack a joke here n there not too many or they will think ur a joke

after the movie, hmm idk dawg, u might want to go back home n keep her guessing but until then just let it be

i peeped hairspray over the summer with some chick, i aint wanna go to it but i didnt opt out. the movie was aight. just be cool n open throughout the movie, girl will like that.

That's pretty much it right there....

[TONY Gigolo]

Ok so ur trying to have a long term relationship with this chick where sexual relations isn't important..

If this is really what ur trying to achieved *coughs* *waste of time* *coughs* then I would suggest you just be yourself.. First date simply concentrate on having a fun time together, show her ur funny side.. since ur seeing a comedy together this is a good start, as chicks around ur age like to laugh and giggle a lot.. as long as thats taking place ur doing good.. and do some of those gentlemanly things like holding the door open.. while ur watching the movie, place ur arm around her shoulder, or hold hands, this can also be done while you two are walking to dinner, coffee shop, ice cream spot, or where ever you plan on taking her after the movie, as you want to get the idea in her head that you two are going to have a relationship without actually saying it on the first date, and doing that helps to project that thought into her mind.

Keep us posted on how the date goes, good luck..

[T-rade]

Ok so ur trying to have a long term relationship with this chick where sexual relations isn't important..

If this is really what ur trying to achieved *coughs* *waste of time* *coughs* then I would suggest you just be yourself.. First date simply concentrate on having a fun time together, show her ur funny side.. since ur seeing a comedy together this is a good start, as chicks around ur age like to laugh and giggle a lot.. as long as thats taking place ur doing good.. and do some of those gentlemanly things like holding the door open.. while ur watching the movie, place ur arm around her shoulder, or hold hands, this can also be done while you two are walking to dinner, coffee shop, ice cream spot, or where ever you plan on taking her after the movie, as you want to get the idea in her head that you two are going to have a relationship without actually saying it on the first date, and doing that helps to project that thought into her mind.

Keep us posted on how the date goes, good luck..

So far there isn't a day for the date (because I work like everyday until new year, and the days I'm off one of us is doing something)

But the thing about being a couple and putitng it in her head sounds like a good idea!

[onema]

u gotta go off of her energy...some women like to ask a lot of questions some like to be asked a lot of questions. make sure u keep the convo going and dont let "awkward silence" get u nervous, just go with the flow...comment on a song playing or something you both can relate to.

do all the gentleman stuff like open doors and stuff, smile at her, offer her ur jacket (only if she doesnt have on or seems cold).

if u want to make her blush give her a complement when she doesnt expect it.. for ex) as shes sipping her drink..."u have beautiful eyes" then just look at her and smile await a response.


youl be fine...common sense knowledge be urself! but dont talk about urself 100% of the time...maybe not even 50% u gotta feel that out.

[Ceasar]

Well, first rule, is to keep the date at about the $20.00 range. You don't wanna go out all breaking bank for a chick you hardly know. That's tricking.

I would have suggested something like a drink in a lounge, that way you two could get some convo in, but a movie's cool. Maybe after the movie you 2 could go get some ice cream and then a nice walk.

ROFLLL @ this broke ass mentality

20dollars thats how much it proably cost to get in

If its a first date, i hate movies cause u can't talk
I would do dinner like applebees or something decent but not to expensive
there is no way u can spend ova $40 (unless shorty looking for a free meal)

be yourself
crack a joke or two
keep the convo flowing and stimulating
let her talk about herself

na mean?

[AL-JABR]

JUST HAVE FUN AND REMEMBER NOT TO GIVE A FUCK.

[Precious_Love381]

I agree with Amante. $20 is how much it cost to get into the movie unless yall going to a cheap theater.
And you can't get to know a person at the movies (only a side profile).
But if that's what yall choose to do on da 1st date then have at it but I think it would be more benefical for yall to go on a date where yall can talk, and really get to know one another.
However if you intensions are not really gettin to know this chick then review Tony G's list of questions and take it from there.

[Miss Teri]

If you want to do a movie then maybe go to dinner first T-Rade, that way you can talk and get to know each other a little then you'll be more comfortable sitting next to her for 2 hours....plus if it isn't going well you won't have to entertain her while in the movie or if it is going well maybe you'll be comfortable enough to hold her hand....just don't be too pushy, relax and have a good time

[Croatians]

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