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Ceasar
02-06-2008, 12:28 PM
So met this chick like a week ago on BP
We was just talking naw mean (gorgeosus, long hair, light skinned, thick ass thighs)
Shorty seemned cool, i liked her unorthdox humor and style(on top off that she knew hella lot about music and jigga her number emcee, i can get wit that)
From the bat we had this crazy sexual chemistry na mean
We would just talk ish, and shorty would tease the heck outta a jigga
However she said and told me flat out she just wanted to be friends
since she got out of a relationship a 3 months ago, I was like cool "its whatever" wit me, but the funny part is she still would flirt hard wit me on the sexual tip na mean it threw me of kinda.
Anyway shorty Intrest level (IL for my askmen.com readers) was proably 40%. I casualy slipped, us going out to eat a few times, however shorty would stiff arm me like Ladinian Thomilson. On top of that she told me she was real cool wit her x still, so i was like whatever. @ this point im falling back na mean? (her IL is @ 25%)
I then did something stupid, cause I didn't wanna play catch n mouse no more, we was on the phone and shorty talking about. "I think I'm ready to be i-n-d-e-p-e-n-t and bla bla" I lose it and uugh "reveal" my frustation to her, Shorty kinda was like "wtf" but in a laughing manner. I basicaly told her that I was keeping it real and we should chill and if we just friends then friends don't talk dirty na mean? So we cleared the air a bit(hoping my reverse psychology would work u know the "i keep it real type off simp dude"), even though i end up looking like a bitch (her IL now is 45% again).

SHorty asked me on friday to chill, but I had to work in the morning she told me she would be chillin wit her girl cause she just got her DWI cleared, so i was like cool. I went out saturday (u know how i do stylin, profilin) did my numbers (3, and 1 on the flip back ms shannon CHEA) I called shorty phone (uugh "late night real hype" na mean) she aint answer. So I talk to shorty the next day and she talking some Nas, HHID shit, na mean like talking about she was chilln wit her x and a friend talking about how hiphop is dead. I was like wtf? Now i know for a fact her x laying pipe (her IL is at 10%). I fall back erase her number, shorty hit me up on yahoo last night and we had an intersting convo. Then she text me this morning on some "i need someone to confide in" tip, at this point i seen it coming. Shorty basically told me her and her x "messed around but no sex" (IL is @ 3.5% I'm in the friend zone)

Now the real nigga that i have become, I aint snap, i took it in stride i shoulda been like "why u telling me this?" instead i called shorty out and was like
"I thought u was chillin wit ur girl?" and she started talking that pharreal shit about "We just friends i told you thats all im looking for" and i was like "friends don't tell each other how wet they coochies get.." na mean? Shorty then basically tried to front like "u are trying to force things, and fall in love.."

BITCH I JUST MET U TWO WEEKS AGO HOW AM I TRY TO FALL IN LOVE NA MEAN?
IN THE WORDS OFF GHOSTFACE "THATS A LOONEY TOON BITCH"

Anyway shorty aint hit me up since...and vice versa
My thing is, i fell back
I did everything except when i uugh "revealed" my interst?
thoughts?
analysis?
I mean i played it right maybe i wasnt patient enough ( i was aggresive) but still when i found out about the x I aint wanna play the game na mean(cause shorty put me in the friend zone even before i cut her off and if she really wanted to chill she would have chilled wit me instead off that nigga, so he stabbin it and im suppose to be her snot nosed tissue)?

holla at cha boy

(--LazerScope-->>
02-06-2008, 06:46 PM
I mean, it took u a minute to fall back, but eventually you did the right thing. Charge her to the game.......She was tryna have u and KEEP u in the friend zone...You're not one of her gf's! U were tryna get with her.

Just don't dwell on it, man, u did the right thing....Mad more fish in the sea....

ElCount
02-06-2008, 06:54 PM
did my numbers (3, and 1 on the flip back ms shannon CHEA)

^^^ WTF does this mean lol...

At least you ain't get caught up and sprung, that woulda been the worst.

T-rade
02-07-2008, 02:35 AM
I agree with the others, and how can you except a guy not wanting to hit it when you tell him stuff like she told you, I think you did the right thing with the "are we friends or you want me to hit it?" thing.

IMO she ended up looking like an idiot and you just looked "normal"

Albemarle
02-07-2008, 05:15 AM
you did the right thing, it don't take a month to see what position a chick is trying to let you start at

T-rade
02-07-2008, 04:57 PM
you did the right thing, it don't take a month to see what position a chick is trying to let you start at

Depends, for guys like me, a month is fast

Canibus
02-08-2008, 12:03 AM
Damn girl look at you now, huhh
On T.V.
With that pretty smile, huhh
Truth is I miss you and I wanna tell ya
But I ain't got no numbers, email, or nothing
You know I seen you at the Bad Boy for life shoot
You was wearing a tight light blue Nike suit
I remember when I connected eyes with you
You winked at me, I thought that was really nice of you
I remember once staying up all night with you
Writing with you, talking bout life with you, it was exciting too
I'm assuming you did the same cause you cared
Girl, don't you remember all the laughter we shared
We used to talk about why Pras failed so bad
And why the hell Wyclef's breath smells so bad
Okay, I know I don't need to tell em all that
But we was kinda feelin each other, you can't deny that
We worked on records together, you murdered them tracks
I think it was sexy how you said the verses like that
You said, "Free be the one rockin shyt, special operative, specialize any
weapon diagnostic"
Just thinkin about it got me souped up
I wanna hug you in your birthday suit, what
Damn, this record is getting out of hand
I'm crazy, you probably already got a man
In that case I hope you hear this song
Sincerely yours, see you at 106 & Park

Ceasar
02-11-2008, 11:57 PM
did my numbers (3, and 1 on the flip back ms shannon CHEA)

^^^ WTF does this mean lol...

At least you ain't get caught up and sprung, that woulda been the worst.

It means i got 3 numbers at the club that night
and gave out one, sadly ms shannon never called me (she was the hottest) but she had a man so i ain't mad
ayo im cool on shorty now, i'm working on this young gun tomorrow and my weekend was straight