My Girlfriend is deleting texts from another guy

[hagrid]

every once in a while i check my girlfriends text messages just to make sure shes not up to anything

so a while back i checked them and there were some regular messages,

but then i hit the button to go to recent texts this guys name popped up and there were no messages to him in the sent sections

which means she is getting texts from and sending texts to this guy but deleting them

i have checked on a couple different days since then and the same thing happens...she has texts received from guy friends of hers that are still there, but the texts sent to and from this other guy are always deleted

so i don't know what to do

should i confront her? if so, how? she will know that i've been going thru her phone and will just say that im being jealous and don't trust her


what should i do? and is there any way to undelete texts so i can find whats going on?

[ElCount]

Nice screen name lol...

So you can't see sent messages...

Can you see the message she's receiving? If so, what kinda messages are they?

Also I wouldn't confront her because of the reasons you said, technically that's something you shouldn't be doing even though alot of people do it anyway. Also it is somethin' mostly chicks do, I don't know alot of dudes that go through their gurl's phone.

I think just havin the knowledge of what you know is good enuff for now. I can see how it might be eating you though, just handle your own.

If the messages she's bein' sent are okay then it probably ain't nothin, but its REAL suspect that she's deleting the sent ones, must be somethin she dont want you to see.

[hagrid]

no what im saying is that i can look in the send and received texts and theres no texts from this guy but when i hit the send message button his name comes up as a person that she has recently sent a text to

so i got no idea at all what they're talking about

[CE-AB]

how long u guys been together....

mann just do what she doing have female friends..if u feel she fuckin then u fuck urs..if u want to catch her up then set her up...have an buddy or someone call her phone and bust some game....or use facebook..thats what i would do

[Q.F.]

Broad is forgetting or just doesn't know that she has to erase the message LOG also, thats cheating 101.

[OnTheAir420]

crazy situation dawg, thats a tuff one. I dont want to give any bad advice but I would probably say its best to see if you find other shit that don't seem right (more evidence) but dont confront her unless you know 100% that some shit is going down.... peace and good luck

[Antonio Black]

Personally, for you to be looking thru her phone is a sign of weakness.

Stop being bitch dependent!

If you feel that she's cheating on you, then cut her off.

Checking her phone shouldn't be your only way of finding out if shit done changed

If you're in a relationship with her for awhile, you instinctly know when things have changed

Stop being naive

You got all the info u need... it's up to u to make the decision

I wouldn't approach her tho...

If you decide to cut her off, just tell her that u feel things done changed between yall, and it's best that u move on

fuck with her head

never wear your heart on your sleeve.

[Tha Illest]

every once in a while i check my girlfriends text messages just to make sure shes not up to anything

so a while back i checked them and there were some regular messages,

but then i hit the button to go to recent texts this guys name popped up and there were no messages to him in the sent sections

which means she is getting texts from and sending texts to this guy but deleting them

i have checked on a couple different days since then and the same thing happens...she has texts received from guy friends of hers that are still there, but the texts sent to and from this other guy are always deleted

so i don't know what to do

should i confront her? if so, how? she will know that i've been going thru her phone and will just say that im being jealous and don't trust her


what should i do? and is there any way to undelete texts so i can find whats going on?

Leave Her. Simple As That.